dreadedcandiru2 (dreadedcandiru2) wrote,

Phil and the passerby syndrome.

Of course, the problem with the family is that they fool a lot of people into believing that they're healthy and normal instead of the captives of a crazy woman who's angry all the time. The most telling example of this is Elly's younger brother Phil. As history teaches us, Phil doesn't seem to realize that Elly hasn't actually bothered growing up at all and is still the same raging imbecile ranting about fake injustices that she was when they were kids. It doesn't make sense that a grown woman would fixate on childhood bullshit and let it warp her life so Phil falsely assumes that she's gotten over all the crap that happened when they were kids.

As history also teaches us, he does so at his peril. This is because he doesn't seem to notice it but each and every time they interact for any great length of it, it's obvious that she's trying to drag him down to her level. If she doesn't want to get into a pointless, frustrating row over how she's owed this, that and the other thing because he supposedly came along and stole her childhood, she's trying to resume her role as "Big Sister, Irritating Dispenser Of Stupid Advice And Also Betrayer Of Confidences For His Own Good And Also To Her Own Advantage." Again, Phil is only dimly aware of this because it doesn't make sense that a grown woman would behave as if she were trying to get Mom and Dad to cut off his allowance for something they can't actually do much about.

What this tells me is that Georgia made a point of separating them because unlike everyone else in the strip, she remembers what a dangerous influence Elly is. Phil came damned close to finally telling Elly off and hammering home the fact that she's a spoiled brat who lives to make conflict and generate tension because she thinks happiness is bad and wrong but didn't quite reach the target. Georgia realized this was futile and did the next best thing to the conflict resolution Elly doesn't want because it means admitting that she is the chaos she's been fighting: keeping the two of them at arms' length.
Tags: georgia, phil versus elly

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